Great post Ms Royale!!! So many great points so well tended to. I really must say however......
I really do not see myself as a "Leader". I am a damn good entertainer, a big mouth, a passionate soul, a lot of things, but I do not pretend to be a leader, I am simply finding my way with the rest of the flock. Mine and Glorya's bad blood stems back as far as I can recall to stupidly enough a club pass promoting QUEEN BEE. It then involved me supposedly trying to lure a dj of hers away (a friend whom I was simply inviting to my B'day party) I am not telling anything except what I know as the truth. Those who are not ABSOLUTELY with Glorya are ABSOLUTELY against her. There is no common ground. Two people can throw a similar based party YET attract two very different clienteles. My venues have always sustained because of the "SHOW". I am old show trash and thats where I am my best. I am also believe it or not a real lover of people. I think there is common ground for almost anybody. Without any negativity coming from my direction, I was informed that I had become the puchline to many sophomoric jokes in Glorya's act. Why I really could not say except I had a drag night. Our familiarity with each other is minimal, so I had not done anything to provoke such unkindness. I am human however and when pushed can be a viscious old queen.....and I was pushed too far. Her passive aggressive behavior in the past should have warned me, but I was trusting. She tried on the occasion with Raymond the DJ to humiliate me with a group of Girls backing her up. Very tacky to say the least. I can honestly say my distaste has been absolutely provoked. Anyone can read into this what they like. From MY experience, Glorya has an extremely unhealthy approach to communication. I am not bashing her, I am speaking from experience. I could never have any modicum of trust in her, relying on her track record with me in the past. Her public attacks on me, her "husband"s public attacks. I have heard great things about the both of them. That there is a real generosity there. I have never felt it personally. I am speaking from MY experience. This all said, I do not think the pairing of Glorya and myself would be beneficial on any level. HOWEVER I do think the two of us can co-exist without public catfights, pointing fingers, and sharp tongues.