Anderson Cooper: "Outing" in the 21st Century

Well to me outting is only a valuable tool to those who are homophobic and who care about issues of sexuality. For out of the closet fags like me and you Hat, there is no real value to outting. I mean who cares who's gay or straight or bi unless one wants to have sex with the person in question. Otherwise it only seems "important" to seriously pathetic people with "issues". And Anderson is a sweet and funny guy in person. I'm sure it's a problem for him in the industry he works in.

Well, I'm a bit of an Anderson Cooper expert.

You see, my lady wife -The Empress has had a "thing" for Anderson ever since she first saw him on CNN. "He's so hot!" she would say night after night. Then... "He must be gay. He's too good to be true."
And I, with pitch-perfect gaydar, would say, "NO way. He is definitely not gay. Trust me, Anderson Coopper is a real man".
So then I Googled "Anderson Cooper gay" to prove that I was right.
I was wrong.
He is most definitely a friend of Dorothy.
And for the record, Michael (Musto) did NOT out him. I guess Michael always gets asked this now. Michael just interviewed him and of course asked him questions about his sexuality etc. in that way Michael has. Anderson Cooper has ALWAYS been open about his sassy-ness. In fact, he has won awards from "The Association Of Gay Journalists" (something like that). It's CNN who tries to keep his sexual orientation quiet. He is just too much of a stud muffin for them I guess. So now Anderson just avoids the subject (on CNN's orders I'm sure). But he's really pretty open about it.
Definitely NOT an "Outing".

Gay Stud Muffin Anderson Cooper

And sooo sweet and funny too. I met him here in PPTown a couple of summers ago at John Dowd's house and he was so nice. He is a stud muffin to be sure Mommy.

I think he's hot too. But then I love premature gray hair in general.

OBVIOUSLY he's a friend of Dorothy's! Like, duh. How could any son of Gloria Vanderbilt not be?

In general I've always taken an understanding position on public figures and the issue of being out. People in the public eye do not have the luxury of everyday privacy like we do, and I felt it wasn't fair of me to expect them to make the same decisions I would make. But we've past the point in history where it's cool to be in the closet anymore really. That's not to say that famous queers should have to run around telling everyone, but I think powerful gay celebrities of this century on some level have a responsibility to be out and proud for the sake of the gay civil rights movement. In Anderson Cooper's case, it's not like he's Ricky Martin and the teenyboppers are going to stop buying records if he comes out of the closet. I have no doubt that CNN wants to keep Anderson's sexuality mum, but he could be a little less demure about it in interviews. That said, he's never lied about it and I completely support him. He's cool.

You are right of course, Daddy... and Bobby too.

Bobby, of course it doesn't mean squat to such "avowed" homosexualists and ladymen such as ourselves. But I get your drift... reprehensible gays and Lesbians who lend a helping hand to those who would would discriminate and legislate against us should be outed... it would make those individuals put their self-loathing homophobic money where there mouths were, and show the world just how traitorous they are.

In the case of Cooper, however, I must say I didn't read the Out piece at all. Indeed, as I may have stated on the M'Boards before, I still confuse it with Outweek. Oh well, you know me and the gay press! But all over the Web there is stuff about Michael's "outing" of Anderson. And Michael's reponse at the time:

Did I Ruin My Chances With Anderson Cooper

I see what Michael is saying in the piece. I mean, after all, it's his job to ask about someone's personal life: sex, romance-- the whole nine yards.

But what is "outing" exactly thse days? Is it exposing some one who is so closeted that absolutely no one knows he is gay? Or is it mentioning the fact that someone is gay who only some of the people know about? I mean, I can still remember my friend's mother being wrecked when Liberace died... how could she not have known?

I guess what spurred my original post were the people reponding negatively online to Richard Burnett's Hour magazine article.
I mean is it "outing" when someone's already "out", and you mention it again? The mind wobbles.

Perhaps it wouldn't be an issue at all if Cooper weren't so intent on sidestepping it. If he would simply say, "yeah I'm Gay, so what... next question!"

As far as knowing that Mr. Cooper was gay, weren't you standing right next to me at a local nightspot, Daddy, when he was holding hands with... oops, but I don't want to out anyone else!

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OBVIOUSLY he's a friend of Dorothy's! Like, duh. How could any son of Gloria Vanderbilt not be?

LOL Lexie, I had even totally forgotten that!

What a gay topic this is!
I just told The Empress that Bobby met her wank Anderson Cooper at John Dowd's house.
She gagged!
I said, "Are you dead? Don't you even read your own boards"?
She said, "Can't you see I'm busy River Dancing".
I looked over and sure enough she was doing her holiday jig to some Celtic Christmas song that only her and Hattie Hathaway could listen to.
(I know a lot of you know this dance. It's very similar to the one she does when she performs with "Les Sisters Hathaway" but totally different from the one she does at "Night Of A Thousand Stevies" which is more of a "twirl, trundle then twirl again".)

i want some of what she's smoking.

Daddy, stop mocking Mommy's great little jig that we all love her for. She's got real rhythem. And while we're thinking of it, I don't recall EVER seeing you dance a jig. Oh that's right during Martha @ Mother, I believe you made your dance debut then.

Sweetie, you know I was BORN to dance!
I mean, just LOOK at my abs!
They're dancing right now.

Daddy, I know your abs would do a fierce riverdance to "Who Threw the Overalls In Mrs. Murphy's Chowder" if you'd just give 'em the chance!

I prefer my riverdance to be classified as an "elfin gavotte" actually!

Daddy left out a HUGE PART of my unending love for Anderson - which was his enormous heart during and after the whole Katrina debacle, especially with those so obviously suffering, and where animals were concerned. THAT was what made me say "he's too good to be true"...his sensitivity was beyond any straight man's I've ever experienced. Sorry, I KNOW some gay men have zero sensitivity, but AC reminds me of the truly big-hearted queens I have been so fortunate to know - old school, hons.

And if you think I wax rhapsodic on this topic, go read petfinder or the nola.com animal boards... SAINT ANDERSON, at least.

I also like AC for precisely that reason! And for the fact that he's a hottie.
The funny thing is that when I first saw him I thought, "Gee, he's handsome for an older gentleman." It was only later that I found out he's almost ten years younger than me!
I have to say that it's not just the hair that misled me-- he has a certain demeanor and dignity one usually associates with a ruling Elder.

I must also agree with the consensus here as I also was not a CNN viewer prior to Katrina, nor a fan, but became an instant fan of Anderson Cooper for his authenticity, courage, fire and grace. He was right on it, and I believe helped to wake up all the other newscasters and reporters across the media board as to what realness really is.

Hey wait I saw him first!

posted here in the Original Wank Bank 03-14-03 02:20 PM

"Hmm... That's not the CNN guy I've had my eyes on. Who's the grey-haired guy with the really young face?

Really light blue eyes.

He's intriguing. Guys who look like they've gone prematurely silver always peak my interests."



XXXOOO
Satori

Oh, and Daddy, I'm sure he's still all man...

OK Satori, you were the first...
But were you really?
well, Anna Nicole, Madge Madison and I were with someone last night who SLEPT with Anderson. (I think) he said 10 years ago.
So there.
and yes... he said he's "All man".

Just a little personal info about anderson cooper....He's the son of gloria vanderbilt the famed inventor of "stretch jeans" His brother committed suicide by jumping off the 38th floor of my old apt building...maybe he couldn't fit into his stretch jeans that would do it for me too!
I think one other brother is a good looking actor doing a few cameos in some average movies.The irony of it all is that truman capote and 70's talk show host david suskind lived in the same building...this was way before hotel 17 ever exisited..ok enough nostalgia

262 I was waiting for u to pip in.... surly u have some inside info on A.C. - Not for me, but for the Empress and the rest of em creamin their knickers.... of course not for me.... but thought i would rebel rouse here since there ain't a "why doesn't Ziggy Marley and Mike Tyson shag ME" section.

10 years ago. hmmm. that would have made me... and him... damn!

XXXOOO
s

Hatches you raise some confounding questions. I guess I'd have to say everytime someone's sexual orientation is mentioned it is an outing. A progression of outings on one person could all have different purposes depending on each situation. So maybe these days the pretense of smirching someone is way secondary to it really being an attempt to polarize an audience. Another act of oversimplification and distraction that puts everything out of focus. Are we watching someone scandalously or proudly gay on CNN? Or are we watching a report of a really important disaster (the detruction of thousands of lives and a whole region by a hurricane, remember?) that has consequences for everyone?

I guess not so long ago any outing not done by the self as a liberatory act was uniformly an act of scapegoating. But now I think outing is more a cause for a public fight over the question of an individual's identity, an individual's right to determine their own sense of self. And maybe more importantly whether an individual's personal sense of self can stand at all in a public that is violently coerced to take sides on the acceptability of that sense of self. This shift from outing as only and ever being a scapegoating to being instead cause for a public debate is only due to the as yet limited success of gay civil rights. It questions the level of maturity of a whole society. The unfinished part is that as of yet, apprently, no can in public be wholly unstigmatically gay.

On the other hand, who cares what the public thinks, as long as there is any possibility I could run in to the delectible AC and enjoy who he himself knows he is.