Reply to "Can We Build a Less Prejudiced TG Sense of Community?"

Against some of my better judgement, I'm going to throw this out about part of my experience(s) with Glorya, though I restrained myself from getting involved in the mudslinging in another forum (despite wanting very much to join in). The first time I worked for Glorya was at one of her Pyramid Club Parties back in 1995. I danced on the bar in heels, panties and bustier all night long. At the end of the night, she said that the party didn't make enough money and none of the dancers would get paid, but I asked her to at least cover my cabfare, and she did. That wasn't so bad I guess.

In the summer of 98, I read Tarot at her Tranny Chaser party when it was at Nanny's. The third time I did it, I walked out and went home, as I couldn't stand the totally obnoxious, creepy clientele another minute. She began bad-mouthing me all over, including leaving a tirade on a friends message machine tearing me apart. I know because my friend saved it to play it back for me so I would know what Glorya was saying about me.

She does seem to have a very disproportionate sense of justice or fairness. I have to feel sorry for someone that makes so many enemies unnecessarily. Communication does seem to be a keyword here. I had nothing against Glorya before that. When I saw her for the first time after I walked out, she didn't care about anything I had to say about it, and acted as if I had committed an irrevokable heinous act that could never be rectified. It was as if she were damning me from her realm, in her mind. When I realized where she was coming from, I just basically said, well, have a good life, and backed away. A few weeks later, I learned about the messages she was leaving etc. Like I said before, she's to be pitied for not having an ability to forgive, let alone exagerating crimes against her to such an extent.

That's all I'm going to say, as we all have our faults, as I certainly do too. I guess I just wanted to share or air my Glorya story, and let you know that I too understand what you are saying. If Glorya were to want to let bygones be bygones, I would be open to that. I believe that she creates some of these betrayals in her mind, and blows them all out of proportion.
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