Thanks everyone for your support. I am finally back to myself today, it really takes alot out of you.
In doing some research about Jacmel, which was my brother's favorite place in Haiti, I came across this very touching story of what is definately the first trans person Ive heard of getting killed over there, FLO MCGARRELL of Chicago FTM.
http://www.chicagotribune.com/...an17,0,1788208.story