Vetiver has been mentioned quite a few times, and as S'tan mentioned, it is not just for men. The Aromatherapy store I work has as many women as men buying Vetiver. We used to have a mens aftershave called "Vetiver and Rum" and it had quite a following of both men and women. But alas, the company that made it went out of buisness. It was a synthetic, but a good one. I have an essential oil distilled from wild grown Vetiver from Java that is like a lush, wet, fertile forest and Sooooo sexy! There is also very good Vetiver oil being distilled from Vetiver grown in Haiti. Vetiver from India is also excellent as always. Vetiver and Jasmine are my two favorite sex oils, especially together. Together they are so voluptuous!!! But really the synthetics don't come close to the depth of soul that the pure essential oils do, nor do they have the botanical chemical constituents unique to that plant, such as Vetiver's natural grounding ability (it has massive rooting system that secure it firmly to the earth) or it's aphrodisac nature.
And I also love Mandarin with Vetiver, or Mandarin with Jasmine. I have seen so many people open up a Mandarin tester and giggle. It's nature seems to lighten up the emotions to a more childlike state. It's uplifting but also sedating. I equate it with the 6 of Cups in Tarot (Jasmine I would put with the Lovers card).
Does anyone remember"Ginseng" by Jovan? It was released in 1977 I believe, and I loved it, but everyone thought they were smelling marijuana when they smelled it on me.