Sorry you had the run-in. Like the Empress said, it is something that stays with you a while. Just feels weird. It sounds a little like that lady might be just waiting and watching and that might be her way of interacting with the world. I used to live in a co-op with an inner garden space and occasionally a resident's dog could not resist the fountain (who could blame them?)and it would be mere seconds before someone called the front desk to say "there is a rule about this." Credit to you for being nice and not engaging. PS Scooter looks really good in his gele.