Well it used to be like that in the audience at Mother! You'd see all the locals, plus alot of shy newbies first-time-out in drag and it was ultra-charming fun etc. If there is still a venue like that in NYC now I don't know about it.
When the Falon and I were in SF we went to Marion's, I think it's also on Harrison? and it was a totally great place in that both butch gay leather guys and trannies were all hanging out together. And the drag acts were totally top drawer. I had not experienced such a group before as in NYC it was always pretty segregated, possibly out of survival instinct... anytime I tried to go to the Lure or the Eagle forget it, they did not care if I was NYC's Top Domme in full leather. I had lipstick on.
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